Fellas! You ever wonder why that girl you are kicking your A-Game playalistic styles to, never gives you the time of day? Why is it, when you are giving the world, she doesn’t even give a breath back?Is it because your breath is kickin’? Or, is it because your clothes aren’t phresh enough?

Whatever you think it may be, you should never stress over a woman too long. Especially if shes not interested in you. But how can you tell? There are signs, if you know how to read them:

1. Always Calling, Never Getting an Answer

“Hello. Hello…?”
Missing a phone call will happen on occasion, but if she hasn’t return ANY of your missed calls and numerous voicemail messages you may want to stop calling altogether. If she isn’t considerate of your phone calls, what makes you think she’s considerate of your feelings? She’s not, so deleting her number from you phonebook is the next step to avoid future hearbreak. Besides, why would you want to waste your minutes on someone that obviously doesn’t want to talk to you?

2. Can’t Talk About Anything

“…*crickets”
Out on date? That’s great! But watch out for your conversations. Are you guys engaging in convo or are you guys barely talking? If you can’t strike a conversation about something as simple as the weather, you guys may have nothing in common. Or, she may not be digging the date – or you.

3. Cancels Plans

“I’m sorry, I can’t make it tonight…”
If your lady friend constantly cancels their plans with you with no regard for you feelings, why give her that benefit? Is she so busy that she can’t even hang out at 7-11 with you? Call up your buds instead. At least THEY will always have your back. And will never flake out on you!

4. Always a Favor Asker, Never A Giver

“Could you drive me to the mall…”
Asking for favors can actually work to a guys benefit. Because you can always call them on it later on. However, if you always find yourself giving the favors but never getting any back in return, you’re getting played bruddah. Yup, she’s taking advantage of you. You don’t deserve that. That means no more favors until she shows that she can return the favor. And I don’t mean just sexually. If she’s a true love interest, or even a friend(!), they will understand. Don’t let anyone take advantage of you.

5. Sets You Up w/ Her Girlfriends

“My co-worker Janey, she would be so perfect for you…”
Does she unexpectedly set you up with one of her friends? Saying that, “she would be so perfect for you!” If she is, chances are she only sees you – as a friend.

6. Mentions Other Guys

“I think Jay is so hot…”
Ok, this one is a no-brainer. If she’s mentioning other dudes right in front of your face; not only is she an inconsiderate snatch, she is clearly showing no interest in you. Time to move on, and play the same game – on her.

7. Friend-Zone

“You’re Like A Brother to Me”
Although a friends-first approach works wonders for relationships (that’s how Hunny K and I first started) it may actually backfire on some guys. Reaching the friend-zone may put you in a position that you may not be able to wiggle yourself out of. And if you find yourself wedged, you may never get out. But fret not! At least you got that hottie as a friend, right?

Don’t get caught up in the dramz, fellas! Seeing any of the Signs mentioned above? You may want to reconsider how much time you should be spending with this “supposed” love interest. Just think about it. If she’s showing any disinterest towards you, chances are….SHES Just Not That Into You. Leave the girl alone and find someone that will genuinely enjoy you – for you! Good luck fellas!